Dear Baby-Daddy Who Don't Pay Child Support
Your child has enough lunch money for school this week, thanks for asking.
The power bill is not too much for me even though your child sleeps with a nightlight because of the issues that he has with you…..UNFAIR.
His shoes and underwear still fit from last year, thanks for asking.
You know he loves basketball and I know he gets that from you but something else occupies your time so you can’t teach him what you know about the sport….UNFAIR.
The school play was nice; your child had a lead role. The ball game was good he hit a homerun that brought two boys in; to see the coach pick him up was a good enough approval I guess.
The conference at the school went fine even though I know they get tired of just seeing me and not the other half of this child.
You don’t have to dodge them for fear that I will ask you for what you owe, my older child wants to work to help out with afterschool programs for your kids…UNFAIR.
The school says he is acting out and not completing work, I ask can he do the work, the teacher says yes but it is like he is angry about something, but I remembered that he talked to you last week and you broke yet another promise and he is angry about it.
I understand his heartache because I have been rejected by a man and I know that hurt but I can’t imagine how much more that pain is as a little boy who longs for his dad, who sees no wrong in his dad and all he wants is his daddy’s love……oh my heart hurts for him because I see these eyes every day and I know there is not a lot of happiness behind them. He wants so bad what is not being given to him. All to get back at me? You would hurt this bouncing baby boy like this. What man would have his son feeling this way, slowly loosing respect behind every broken promise? Shame on you baby daddy.
Your title now you are a selfish son of a b*^*h, yes a selfish son of a b*^*h, certainly you watch the news and you see what is going on with our youth the need all the fathers and grandfathers and uncles to help them in this world today. For you to drop out of the picture and not do anything thinking that I would reap any type of benefit, you don’t call so they won’t ask you for anything, and when they call you only talk about video games (not schoolwork/not dress visits/not friends that they are hanging with). That fits you right now you know what, I don’t want to insult your mom with the former statement so I take that part back, so you are a selfish bastard, yeah that’s better selfish bastard.
You chose something else over your child, whether it is a woman, drugs or job then you fall under the category and it is UNFAIR.
For the good fathers who assist with the wellbeing of their children, good job. I am not writing to you.